Being married is a challenge. And if you aren't fully committed it can even break you.
It's extremely hard to balance your relationship with your spouse, plus raising your children & duties outside of the house without slighting anyone.
For me the hardest of these is balancing my relationship with my husband & my duties as a mom. It's hard. Think about it. Your spouse can feel slighted if you give your children too much attention. They'll feel neglected. Then the children will start to act out if they aren't getting enough attention.
So its daily struggle & it gets worse once someone feels slighted & then you are responsible for fixing it.
With much prayer & faith it can all be worked out.