Chances

I've noticed that when we aren't looking and aren't trying that's when we find what we're looking for.

Give people a chance to show you who they really are because sometimes you may be amazed at who they reveal themselves to be. I have this friend that I had thought was arrogant but once I let him show me who he is, he's really not arrogant at all. And the person I just knew wasn't arrogant happened to be the person who is actually arrogant.

Then, there are second chances sometimes a person may royally screw up and we want to just wash our hands of that person. But sometimes you may need to give them a second chance and even if you don't tell them that they have received a second chance. Just do it anyways!

Take the chance on not holding a grudge. On being happy and finding a reason to smile every day. Take the chance on being happy and putting the past behind you. Take the chance on letting out your inner royalty. Yes there's an inner Royal in you. But royalty is humble and kind. Confident and gracious. That's the kind of royalty that you should reveal.

Every woman has an inner Queen, every girl has an inner Princess. But it takes someone special who is willing to take the chance on loving them and treating them right to release that royalty. It's the same with Men and their inner King. Did you know if you take the chance on talking to a man's inner King, he will SHOW you his inner King? If you take the chance on showing him your appreciation and love and gratitude his inner King will shine so bright!

I take the example of men, because women always say they want their King, their knight in shining armor. When he can be right there in front of you but you aren't addressing him correctly.
If you want your man to be willing to do things with you, INVITE him to do those things with you! Most men are willing to take the chance on trying new things if he knows that it's what you want.

Its the same with women! Guys if you make your lady feel like she's your Queen, she will behave like your Queen. Women will cook clean and look regal when you give them a reason to want to. Women are emotional creatures. We thrive upon adoring looks and knowing that we are beautiful to you. We thrive upon knowing we are loved and appreciated. Women have to hear the words. Whereas men can just know how we feel by the way we treat them...we need those words. We need the intimacy they create.

Now don't get me wrong, some men need intimacy as well. Some men need to know that they are the only guy you want and love. And to me that's just as well, since we women have a tendency to wear our feelings on our sleeves.

My point is to take chances on life on love on experiences.