Showing posts from May, 2010


I've noticed that when we aren't looking and aren't trying that's when we find what we're looking for.

Give people a chance to show you who they really are because sometimes you may be amazed at who they reveal themselves to be. I have this friend that I had thought was arrogant but once I let him show me who he is, he's really not arrogant at all. And the person I just knew wasn't arrogant happened to be the person who is actually arrogant.

Then, there are second chances sometimes a person may royally screw up and we want to just wash our hands of that person. But sometimes you may need to give them a second chance and even if you don't tell them that they have received a second chance. Just do it anyways!

Take the chance on not holding a grudge. On being happy and finding a reason to smile every day. Take the chance on being happy and putting the past behind you. Take the chance on letting out your inner royalty. Yes there's an inner Royal in you.…


What is fear? And why do people let it rattle them so much? Fear is being afraid or scared. But how can you let fear control your life? Fear is something to conquer! Its something that you face head on & tame. Fear is a way of admitting defeat without saying the actual words.
To conquer your fears is your way of triumph. To defeat fear you have to face it head on. Don't look down and be confident. Look at yourself as the champion and as though you have already won.

If you have a fear of heights sit at the window seat next time you fly. Or go on a rollercoaster. Try a high slide at a water park.

If you have a fear of relationships place yourself in one and confide in your partner that you are afraid. Let that person know that you will give your relationship everything you've got in exchange for understanding and patience.

If your fear love, try loving yourself first {genuinely loving yourself}. Take yourself out on dates. Pamper yourself. Then slowly let someone in, remember t…


So much happiness is waiting to be tapped into. Every second of the day is a chance to obtain that happiness, a chance to put a smileon your face that may put a smile on someone else's face. Did you know that some of the most simple things can generate happiness of the highest degree? For me I have so much excess happiness in my life because I try to stop to enjoy the roses. I understand that some people are career focused and that's GREAT. However what happens when all you have in life is your career but no one to share in the joy of your achievements or you've past up some great opportunities to enjoy life? Don't miss out on some of life's simple pleasures. Parks are a simple pleasure, Beaches are a simple pleasure. Friends are one of life's richest pleasures. Children are one of life's most beautiful and treasured pleasures. Some people don't understand why people {most} with children are thankful for their children. Life may seem a bit harder with …