Saturday, December 26, 2009

Shanel Cooper-Sykes Call (November)


 

IN CASE YOU MISSED THIS CALL (A NO-FEE TELE SEMINAR) HERE'S AN UPDATE ON WHAT WAS SHARED. ;-)

STEP1:

CLARITY- YOU NEED TO BE CLEAR ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT OUT OF YOUR LIFE.


 

STEP 2:

PURPOSE- KNOW YOUR PURPOSE…PICK YOUR NICHE. IT'S NOT ABOUT MONEY IT'S ABOUT WHEN YOU'RE LIVING & WORKING IN YOUR PURPOSE.

*IF YOU HAVE A "WHY" THEN YOU CAN FIGURE OUT THE "HOW"

CREATE A PERSONAL MISSION STATEMENT.


 

STEP 3:

CREATE YOUR RECIPE FOR LIFE. STILETTOS IN THE KITCHEN IS A METAPHOR FOR LIFE. YOU NEED THE RIGHT INGREDIENTS, THE PROCESS TO COOKING, ABLE TO COOK, AND THE RIGHT WAY TO SERVE.

WHAT DO YOU NEED?

AND ONCE YOU HAVE WHAT YOU NEED, WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO WITH IT?


 

STEP 4:

PREPARE. PREPARE YOUR LIFE TO RECEIVE WHAT YOU WANT. GET RID OF THE THINGS THAT ARE IN THE WAY. TANGIBLE & INTANGIBLE. CLEAN YOUR HOUSE, CLEAN YOUR MIND.


 

STEP 5:

BEASTIFY YOUR ATTITUDE. GET COMPLETELY BEASTY ABOUT YOUR LIFE. A BEAST GETS WHAT IT WANTS. (A BEAST WILL DESTROY OR MOVE TO THE SIDE WHATEVER'S IN THE WAY)

HAVE YOUR AFFIRMATION EVERYWHERE!

-TAKE AN INVENTORY OF YOUR LIFE…SEPARATE IN RED (PEOPLE BELOW YOUR LEVEL), BLUE (PEOPLE AT YOUR LEVEL), GREEN (PEOPLE ABOVE YOUR LEVEL). SURROUND YOURSELF AROUND WHAT YOU WANT TO BE. NOTIFY THE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE THAT YOU ARE ABOUT TO TAKE A JOURNEY OF SELF DISCOVERY & ENHANCE YOUR LIFE. GET IN WHERE THEY FIT IN.

-GET A MENTOR. A MENTOR IS A GIFT FROM GOD. GET A MENTOR FOR EVERY ASPECT OF YOUR LIFE.

-ELIMINATE THE DISTRACTIONS! NO GOSSIP, NO B.S. TELEVISION. GET YOUR AFFIRMATIONS! OF WHAT YOU ARE DOING, STRATEGICALLY PLACE THEM AROUND YOUR HOME. GET YOUR MOTIVATION MUSIC.

-BUILD YOUR SPIRITUAL MUSCLE. YOU NEED TO BE STRONG IN YOUR SPIRITUALITY, YOUR CONNECTION WITH GOD. CREATE YOUR RITUAL. PRAY EVERYDAY. WRITE IN YOUR GRATITUDE JOURNAL. BROADEN YOUR VOCABULARY, LEARN NEW WORDS. DICTIONARY.COM CREATE A ROUTINE THAT BUILDS YOUR SPIRITUAL MUSCLE


 

STEP 6:

CREATE YOUR VISION BOARD. THAT'S YOUR GUIDE FOR YOU TO ADHERE BY. YOUR VISION BOARD IS YOUR GOAL & GUIDE AND YOUR AFFIRMATIONS HELP YOU GET THERE.


 

STEP 7:

BE UNREALISTIC. BE DIFFERENT. LOOK AT WHAT EVERYONE ELSE IS DOING AND DO WHAT IS DIFFERENT. IF WHAT THEY ARE DOING ISNT YIELDING POSITIVE RESULTS & THE RESULTS THAT ARE UP TO PAR, CHOOSE A DIFFERENT STRATEGY.


 

STEP 8:

BURN THE ROPE ONCE YOU GET ACROSS. ELIMINATE EVERY SINGLE OPTION THAT ALLOWS YOU TO BACK TRACK. IF YOU HAVE A WAY TO BACK TRACK THEN YOU WILL BACK AWAY FROM YOUR DREAMS. IF YOU HAVE A LOT OF BACK UP PLANS THEN YOU DON'T EXPECT THE MAIN PLAN TO WORK.


 


 


 

STEP 9:

FOCUS- HAVE LASER BEAM VISION…DO NOT STOP UNTIL YOU GET THERE. HAVE TUNNEL VISION WHERE YOU ONLY SEE YOUR DREAM AND DON'T STOP UNTIL YOU ATTAIN THAT DREAM.


 

STEP 10:

DO NOT GIVE UP. NEVER NEVER NEVER GIVE UP!


 

FAITH IS JUST NOT BELIEVING. FAITH IS ALSO ACTION. IF YOU START ON THAT ACTION GOD WILL ENSURE THE REST OF THE PATH.


 

HW ASSIGNMENTS:

IF YOU KNEW YOU WOULD NOT FAIL…WHAT WOULD YOU ATTEMPT TO DO?

CLARIFY WHAT YOU WANT THEN CREATE YOUR MISSION STATEMENT

TAKE AN INVENTORY OF YOUR LIFE…YOU MAY NEED TO ELIMINATE PEOPLE OUT OF YOUR LIFE.


 


 

2 comments:

  1. One one level I appreciate what she doing. She is opening the eyes of a lot of people- in particular black people. I was fan on FB, then I started doing my research. NOTHING that comes out of her mouth is original.
    The Secret-Rhonda Byrne
    7 Habits of Highly Effective People- Stephen Covey
    How to be a Domestic Goddess- Nigella Lawson

    Those are just 3 examples. Shanel has used all the concepts that these people came up with and is now selling them as her own ideas.
    Now for years people have 'used' these concepts, or reiterated them in their own way- but my issue with Shanel is that she is 'using' a lot these concepts without any adjustments. Sigh...its sad.

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  2. Sorry I'm so late responding. I've researched and the comments you've made were to my surprise true. Like you I can appreciate her opening the eyes of many people, but I do wish she would give others their credit as well.

    Thanks for your comment!

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